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Self Care

One definition of self-care is a self-directed practice of getting your health and wellness needs met including all emotional, psychological, and physiological needs. This is my simplified version of technical health care and Wikipedia definitions. Mindset Part of...

Skills for Self Love

Learn to have hard conversations Part of intimate charge is being on the same wavelength as someone else. Getting there might require a hard conversation or two. Learn to hold space for them in the conversation; learn to make space for yourself. NVC is just one tool...

Podcast Phone Tutorial

Welcome to the Phone Tutorial for adding Intimate Interactions to your Android device. This covers both the Free and Premium podcasts. If you have an Apple device, you can search for us on iTunes by typing in “Intimate Interactions” and add us to iTunes. A premium...

Kink Primer

If you haven’t already, consider reading my New Connections Primer. I also published a Sexy Fun...

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Transformative Justice / Healing

Creating Transformative Processes

If you want help implementing any of these systems, I’m available to speak to your organization or to  consult with you or to offer workshops. If you want to get more detailed content and see my work as it’s published, please sign up for my patreon. Currently I’ve...

Impact Statements

“The goal of any true resistance is to affect outcomes, not just to vent. And the only way to affect outcomes and thrive in our lives is to find the eye in that hurricane and act from that place of inner strength.” – Arianna Huffington Accountability isn’t just for...

Do I Need an Accountability Pod?

Why Create a Pod? Having an Accountability Pod normalizes mistakes, promotes/models best practices, and reduces shame around consent incidents. It is a safety net for when you miss something or mess up. It eases the social friction in a community from the harm we...