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Ever wonder where I get all my good ideas? Here are some resources to find the (smarter) people who introduced me to the building blocks of my synthesis as well as some of the best new resources for getting started.

VOICES Consent Framework

Learn how to get what you want with kindness and empathy. The rules-based system of drawing arbitrary lines is not effective. No one wants to learn what not to do. Instead, learn a nuanced, principles-based approach that focuses on the quality of your consent and the subjective experiences of those involved.

Improve Your Relationships

Are kink or polyamory for you? Have a read through my relationship primer.

Polyamory, Consent, Kink, and more are real possibilities for you if you want them. Consider some relationship coaching.

Intimate Interactions Podcast

Candid interviews on intimacy with a wide variety of people from ultra marathon runners to sex educators, older folks to university students. Expect many different conversations about sex and relationships.