Accounting for Ourselves (PDF, 40 pages) about pitfalls and philosophy behind why and how community accountability process fail. I highly recommend this for anyone attempting a Community Accountability Process as a what-not-to-do.
The Chrysalis Collective’s Ending Sexual Assault Through Transformative Justice (PDF) is also a good resource for looking at phases of Community Accountability.
I’ve written a guide on creating Impact Statements with or without the harmful person still in the picture. These can be useful for corporate team repair as well as non-criminal allegations of harm.
Accountability Texts and Anti-Oppression Resources
The Tenets of Anti-Racism from Resist Racism was useful for me.
Toxic Elements of Masculinity are harmful to men and everyone else.
Consider doing an Accessibility Audit on your venue provided by the Radical Access Mapping Project.
Generation Five has created a Transformative Justice Handbook for Ending Child Sexual Abuse (68 pages).
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Me and White Supremacy: Combat Racism, Change the World, and Become a Good Ancestor by Layla F. Saad comes with journaling prompts, Audiobook read by herself (a Black, Muslim, British femme) – [intermediate]
I wrote a Skills for Self Love Resource Sheet for a class I taught.
The Willow Tree Counselling Resource Sheet is an incredible list of low cost resources divided into Trauma Support, LGBTQ+, Addictions, and many other categories. It’s a huge value.
Want to create a support group? Want to get training to become a facilitator? Try PeerNetBC. They are even sometimes able to provide sliding-scale, accessible support group venues.
PACE Society is a by sex workers for sex workers advocacy and resources group where you can learn about sex work.
Interested in drug education, drug training, and drug harm reduction? Karmik Harm Reduction does non-judgmental work in helping create safer real world party and drug cultures.
I wrote an Introduction to Nonmonogamy!
Check out the Intimate Interactions Podcast about intimacy, sex, relationships, ethical nonmonogamy, and kink.
I also recommend the books More Than Two, Nonviolent Communication, and Love’s Not Colorblind. The first two are available as audiobooks.
I also really enjoyed this break-down of 8 times Mister Rogers gave excellent poly advice.
Kink Negotiation Helpers
Rain City TNG’s Tonight, I Want! is recommended for a short worksheet to check in with yourself and your partner.
There’s also the MVK Legacies: Navigating Negotiation workshop that I coauthored.