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Impact Statements

Impact Statements

“The goal of any true resistance is to affect outcomes, not just to vent. And the only way to affect outcomes and thrive in our lives is to find the eye in that hurricane and act from that place of inner strength.” – Arianna Huffington Accountability isn’t just for...
Understanding BIMPOC

Understanding BIMPOC

Do you live in a city like Vancouver that is 50% white but find yourself working in an environment that’s two thirds white or more? It’s possible your company has a culture that isn’t as friendly or accepting of non-White folks as it might think it is. There may be...
Core Values Exercise

Core Values Exercise

Questions Which people do you respect most? Why? What do you think their top 3 most important values are? When you think of behaviour you dislike or find irritating, what 3 values do you think lie behind them? When you think of ways people describe you, what do you...
Gender and Orientation, An Introduction

Gender and Orientation, An Introduction

The above Genderbread Person v3.3 describes Gender Identity, Gender Expression, Biological Sex, Sexual Attraction, and Romantic Attraction. All of these terms are different and until you have a vocabulary of gender and attraction, it’s hard to describe what you...
Gender and Orientation, An Introduction

Kink Primer

If you haven’t already, consider reading my New Connections Primer. I also published a Sexy Fun Primer. Why Kink? Kinksters come from a variety of backgrounds and practice kink for a variety of reasons. Kink is an incredibly powerful vehicle for self intimacy. Getting...
Relationship Values

Relationship Values

This is part two of a primer intended as an introduction to one perspective on having healthy, ethical relationships. The first part is here. This series as written in 2015. All opinions are my own and do not reflect a supremacy or One True Way position. Questions are...