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Understanding BIMPOC

Understanding BIMPOC

Do you live in a city like Vancouver that is 50% white but find yourself working in an environment that’s two thirds white or more? It’s possible your company has a culture that isn’t as friendly or accepting of non-White folks as it might think it is. There may be...
Do I Need an Accountability Pod?

Do I Need an Accountability Pod?

Why Create a Pod? Having an Accountability Pod normalizes mistakes, promotes/models best practices, and reduces shame around consent incidents. It is a safety net for when you miss something or mess up. It eases the social friction in a community from the harm we...
Core Values Exercise

Core Values Exercise

Questions Which people do you respect most? Why? What do you think their top 3 most important values are? When you think of behaviour you dislike or find irritating, what 3 values do you think lie behind them? When you think of ways people describe you, what do you...
Gender and Orientation, An Introduction

Gender and Orientation, An Introduction

The above Genderbread Person v3.3 describes Gender Identity, Gender Expression, Biological Sex, Sexual Attraction, and Romantic Attraction. All of these terms are different and until you have a vocabulary of gender and attraction, it’s hard to describe what you...
Gender and Orientation, An Introduction

Kink Primer

If you haven’t already, consider reading my New Connections Primer. I also published a Sexy Fun Primer. Why Kink? Kinksters come from a variety of backgrounds and practice kink for a variety of reasons. Kink is an incredibly powerful vehicle for self intimacy. Getting...