by Victor Salmon | Aug 15, 2018 | 101
Do you live in a city like Vancouver that is 50% white but find yourself working in an environment that’s two thirds white or more? It’s possible your company has a culture that isn’t as friendly or accepting of non-White folks as it might think it is. There may be...
by Victor Salmon | Mar 25, 2018 | Transformative Justice
Why Create a Pod? Having an Accountability Pod normalizes mistakes, promotes/models best practices, and reduces shame around consent incidents. It is a safety net for when you miss something or mess up. It eases the social friction in a community from the harm we...
by Victor Salmon | Mar 10, 2017 | 101
Questions Which people do you respect most? Why? What do you think their top 3 most important values are? When you think of behaviour you dislike or find irritating, what 3 values do you think lie behind them? When you think of ways people describe you, what do you...
by Victor Salmon | Feb 2, 2017 | 101
The above Genderbread Person v3.3 describes Gender Identity, Gender Expression, Biological Sex, Sexual Attraction, and Romantic Attraction. All of these terms are different and until you have a vocabulary of gender and attraction, it’s hard to describe what you...
by Victor Salmon | Aug 3, 2016 | 101
If you haven’t already, consider reading my New Connections Primer. I also published a Sexy Fun Primer. Why Kink? Kinksters come from a variety of backgrounds and practice kink for a variety of reasons. Kink is an incredibly powerful vehicle for self intimacy. Getting...