In 2019, Victor (they/them) spoke at the BC Center for Disease Control, Westcoast Bound, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, Converge Con, and Stratagem: Workplace Justice Reimagined. Their content focuses on consent, accountability, anti-racism, and addressing toxic masculinity. In addition, they are an intersectional mixed-race feminist, queer relationship anarchist, educator, public speakerMetro Vancouver Kink (MVK) legacy series educator, accountability coach, Vancouver Consent Crew facilitator, and host of Intimate Interactions Podcast (


They’ve been in the Vancouver Kink scene for 8 years, and practicing ethical non monogamy for about 7 years. You can find them on the web (, on Twitter and Instagram (@intimateVictor), by email ([email protected]), and on Facebook (/intimateVictor).